A lot of things seem pretty black and white at the moment, either perfect or abysmal, love it or hate it etc. Mostly hate it. Especially when it comes to people, especially when they’ve not been very nice. Now, I’m perfectly happy to say that I don’t like some people. Hell, there are people I hate. But what I’m not going to do is tell their friends how much I hate them and cause ’em upset. It’s not really clever, is it?
But it seems that some people just can’t keep their dang mouths shut, didn’t their mothers ever tell them “If you don’t have anything nice, don’t say it at all.”? Especially when bitching about people to their friends.
Here’s a handy flow chart
Most of all, don’t even bother lying. It’s a nasty habit and it’s not hard to find out when a person’s lied to you.